Debunking Love Triangles: A Peek Into The Love Life of Chris Brown

He had everybody in the office screaming bout how they just turned sixteen.  Yet, I was the youngest in my office, and even I wasn't close enough to sixteen to sing about it.  Hell was wrong with these people!  And who was this dude that they played non stop between John Legend, Mariah Carey and Alicia Keys!  I went home determined to figure out who exactly was Chris Brown.  And that I did!


Chris Brown has since become one of my all time favorite artists; amassing a music catalog that's nothing less than impressive, by even the harshest standards. A complete entertainer, who's comparison to the legendary Michael Jackson, speaks not only of his caliber of dance, but also of his future as music royalty. Yet, as with many future kings, there exist a love dilemma with Chris Brown.  Some may even refer to it as a Love Triangle.  The goal of this blog post is to get to the bottom of that "triangle".  And if at all possible, see all sides clearly.




In school, I did HORRIBLE in math.  In fact, the only math I did well enough in to even speak on, was Geometry.  And the one thing I can remember from geometry class, was that there are 3 types of triangles: 
Equilateral Triangle: 3 Equal Sides; Isosceles Triangle: 2 Equal Sides; Scalene: 0 Equal Sides. If I had to say love was triangular, I would have to compare it to the Scalene Triangle; for it has NO equal sides.

Who does Chris Brown love romantically.  Our question of the hour!!  I looked at an old interview of Chris Brown's Mom, where she spoke of her son's generosity and love for family.  She said that he was just a naturally loving kid that just wants to take care of everybody. It was a pretty good interview, too.  Learned a lot of things.  And that leads me into my next segment.  Is Chris Brown in love, or just loving.

After Rihanna publicly stated that she hadn't been on a date in years, the news media went wild!!  Chris then invited her out to his Queeby business party, where they spent some pretty intimate time together away from the larger crowd. Pretty debonair!!  


And It's also rumored that he still financially supports former girlfriend, Karrucche. Well, Breezy sounds pretty loving...but is he in love! For a man to be in love, he must see what he loves as HIMSELF!!  And this is not a small task.  But I can see Chris Brown possibly loving one of these girls, one day, in the future.

I finally saw the ex girlfriend Karrueche, up close. And she's freaking GORGEOUS!!  HUGE FUTURE!!  Only issue with Karrueche, is that she hasn't stepped into her future yet.  I can actually see her becoming a huge model and even doing television.  Maybe even working with Shaunie Oneal one day.  You never know.  But what I do know for sure, is that love is easier when a girl hasn't stepped into her full self.  In order for Chris Brown to return what she is giving spiritually, it would have to come from the fully developed Karrueche Tran.  And that girl is coming, but she would have to be discovered BEFORE the inner side of love can show up in that union.

Rihanna has been through some things.  In fact, she's been through the fire and stood on the clouds, and still shouts from the sky, " I Love You!".  But how can she get the inner return to her love, from Chris Brown.  As stated earlier, in order for a man to love a woman, he must see that woman as himself.  So what must Rihanna do!  Gorgeous, super talented, super successful, and a straight BOSS on many levels; yet the inner spirit of Chris Brown doesn't see her as HIMSELF just yet.  What could be the problem.  

 When a man speaks:
Some of his words are brain, and some are heart based.  In order for a woman to duplicate a man's heart, she must take in his words that are heart based.  But sometimes women have barriers to hearing a man's heart.  Not sure what's going on between Chris Brown and Rihanna, but if she is able to duplicate his heart, and they come together as ONE, they 
stand the chance of becoming a couple that's LEGENDARY!!

   

Snow Bunnies In Desert Storms: The War On Loving Realistically!!

When my nephew was in high school, he dated this really pretty dark skinned girl named, Shaqueeda. I mean, they went EVERY WHERE together; and I do mean, every where!  If you saw him, you saw her. PERIOD!!  He was just head over heels for this girl, and everybody knew it, too.  But one day, he came to the crib talking bout how he only liked white girls.  And Lord knows I don't have a problem with white girls, except for the fact that, my nephew didn't know any!! 

The earlier one exposes a knife to the back, the better chance one has of preventing that knife from doing more damage.  And if one allows a knife to stay in their back, the more likely they will experience severer injury, as they move their feet.

After asking around, I eventually discovered that my nephew was told by his little homies, that his girl was giving some "neck" round the schoolhouse. I laughed it off, because I knew Queeda and she didn't appear to be wild like that. But comes to find out, she admitted to the rumors without even putting up an argument or denial. And this crushed my nephew, who had already paid his prom fee. How could he be so stupid, he wanted to know. His girl of two years; the one he loved; and the one whom he was taking to prom, was an undercover freak. And all his homies knew. How could he live this down!

When I discovered everything that transpired, I then knew why my nephew never wanted to mess with black girls again.  I understood his pain.  I would be embarrassed as hell, too.  But I had to make sure he knew that personalities and skin types have no association.  Promising to never talk to another black girl IN LIFE, wouldn't solve his problems. However, making a decision to get to know someone before giving his heart away, would.

Today, nephew is doing well at Hampton University, and dates a beautiful white girl from Richmond, Va.  But last month he dated a beautiful black girl from Williamsburg, Va.  And next week, he'll probably date a bad Puerto Rican from West Blip Jip!! Bottom line:  Today, he doesn't have an emotional injury, because I forced him to expose the knife.  If we forced all of our kids to love realistically, no telling how happy our world would grow to be.

Rx
Dr.Love



                                                                                                        

Can She Upgrade Me: Man's Only Question on Love & Marriage!!

Seems like every girl and her sister, wants to be married these days.  And fellas notice the thirst out there.  But the question every man must ask himself is; can she upgrade me.  Unlike women, men look for very practical signs for needing to marry.  And having three kids together, don't always equal a good enough reason for tying the knot.  Hopefully, in this posting, we can get to the bottom of the upgrade relationship principle.

Eve caused Adam to be evicted from his home; fired from his job; and strain the relationship he had with the only family he knew.  Yet the Good book never speaks of Adam talking bad about Eve or having any type of evil anger towards her.  Why, you ask.  Maybe it's because Adam knew Eve's whole point of getting him to eat that forbidden fruit, was to upgrade him.  And as he left the garden that he was evicted from, it was admitted by God, that Adam was now an equal with Him.  Upgrades are important!

Ever since Beyonce dropped the "Upgrade U" track, dudes have been searching high and low for reasons to marry longtime girlfriends; and rightfully so.  Any dude with half a brain can struggle alone.  What's the point of matrimony.  Can she bring something to the table that will make him better; can she bring something to the table that will aid him in completing his purpose in life.  Honestly, how can a possible marriage benefit a man's life.  The answer to that, is very important to all men.

Contrary to popular opinion, if Johnny has a table with four chairs already, meeting a girl with the same won't be enough motivation for Johnny to marry.  Now, if said girl had a table cloth and an ability to decorate Johnny's table, and make it pretty; then Johnny might consider some things!!  Every smart Johnny knows that deals are made at the table.  And when guests see the table, they see the man behind the table!

 We must never forget that purpose is a man's meal of life, and partnership is a drink to help him digest that meal.  ANY TIME a man finds a woman that causes him to regurgitate the portion of meal he has already swallowed, he must release her.  But when he finds that one who taste good with his meal, AND helps his meal stay down, you better believe he will keep her. For she's not any ole gal.  That right there is an UPGRADE!

Rx.
Doctor Love

Seasoned Lovers: Surviving the Salt of Hollywood & Pepper of Celebrity!!

A successful black couple, that lasts longer than five years, is rare.  A successful black couple, that lasts longer than five years, in Hollywood, is really rare.  And the successful marriage, that lasts longer than five years in Hollywood, is extremely rare.  But that successful BLACK marriage, which lasts longer than ten years in Hollywood, is much too rare to not highlight.  Today, I gotta pay homage to some seasoned lovers.  And hopefully, formulate a good guess 'timation on how their relationships survived the salt & pepper of the lifestyle, this long. 

  One thing I can see from jump: All of the women listed here, use their husbands last name professionally.  Not sure how important that is, but some might find that interesting for professional women of Hollywood.  And the other similarity with all of the couples listed, is that all have more than one child together. Honestly, outside of the fact that every veteran couple listed here, are fairly good friends, their longevity is really relationship based.

Vanessa Bell Calloway is quickly approaching 25 years of marriage to her successful husband, Dr. Anthony Calloway. Yes, I know; hard to imagine, but our Coming to America darling is growing up!(tear, tear) Outside of the fact that he's a super successful Hollywood anesthesiologist, and they have two beautiful (GORGEOUS!!) daughters in college, this sexy couple never over-shares the personals of their relationship.  Maybe that's the key to their longevity. 
You never know!

Holly Robinson Peete is another superstar, who's DOB might make one DOA!!  Gorgeous!!  But unlike the Calloway's, she and retired NFL quarterback, Rodney Peete, share their world with the...WORLD!!  Holly and Rodney Peete are like America's real life TV Mom and Dad.  They openly share their family's triumphs and also their trials.  And their charities are one of the most popular throughout the world.  Maybe sharing their experiences are the key to their relationship longevity.  You never know!

Duane and Tisha Campbell- Martin have been the subject of the world's greatest relationship rumor mill since the start of their union.  But can you blame the world, though. They're a sexy couple.  He's been a little prettyboi since he started in the acting game, and every dude and his brotha wanted them some Tisha Campbell, since "School Daze" and "House Party". So the rumors are understandable. Key to their relationship longevity, though...not sure.  Maybe it's the fact that they're also business partners in many ventures.  And the additional fact that their both comedians can't hurt, either.  But you never know what can be that superglue in another's relationship.  Could be something big, small, or personal.  You never know!

Jada and Will Smith, are by far, the poster children for Black Love.  Even though they've been married a shorter period than every couple listed, their 15 year marriage sparked a new flame of possibilities for young black Hollywood.  Their names have been listed in countless songs, ads, TV shows and movies, as a STANDARD to reach in relationship bliss.  Not sure what their key to longevity is, though.  Just like with the Martins, their beauty and success attracts many rumors.  I will say, however, that both Jada and Will have a love for music.  That could be a plus.  And the fact that their children are coming of age superstars who need the guidance of both industry parents, may help as well.  But you never know, for real. 



And honestly, with any successful couple, famous or otherwise; the popular saying stands true:  Standards are an illusion; for what's standard for the spider, is chaos for the fly!  Remember that!

Rx.
Dr.Love

Ossie Davis and Ruby Dee:  The Black Hollywood STANDARD

Branding Love: The Business of Making Love NOT War!!

How did the notorious "King of The South", become the world's next "Cliff Huxtable".  Inquiring minds want to know.  Really!  Was it a spur of the moment kind of thing, or did the decision to take a family to reality TV have something to do with being connected to a woman who knew the insides of her partner; even better than the more powerful media.  I'll take the latter for 500, Alex!

I've always been a fan of Tiny.  Not just as one of the greatest singers and song writers to grace the earth; but also as the poster chick for Ride Or Die relationship commitment.  Through thick and thin she stood beside her partner, and honest to God, PRODUCED the image of what we see today.




As much as I pride myself on knowing music history, only recently learned that T.I's real name is "Cliff".  I think knowing the inner Cliff behind the title, is what motivated Tiny to PRODUCE the brand of love we see today, on Family Hustle.

Vision is wonderful.  And love is divine.  But a woman with a vision of love is HARRRD to find!  Big ups to Tiny for sticking with her vision for love!

Rx/ Doctor Love

                                         
 

Stroking Blue Checks: The Art of Paying The Price for Love and Celebrity!

Love is HARD.  In fact, love is harder for a man to obtain these days than ever before. PERIOD!! Not "love" as we think it to be, but actual LOVE, as it was designed to be. Yea, THAT love is pretty hard to obtain, nowadays.  And given the new financial dynamics of the "average black couple", THAT love may become a thing of the past.  My goal in blogging is to share the principles of, and barriers to, GENUINE LOVE.  Hopefully, it may help someone.

He's a BALLER; She's a Baller.  He's a celebrity; She's a celebrity. He got a busy schedule; She got a busy schedule. He got fans; She got them, too!  Can a celebrity ever find love with another celebrity.  Can a baller ever find love with another baller.  Can the famous be famously in love.  Can the powerful meet the requirements of love, together.  All of these are my questions of the hour!!

Genuine Love, no matter how much money one has, REQUIRES the same:

A woman duplicating a man's heart, by taking in his heart words.  But that can be a long (and sometimes, never ending) process if the woman does not hold the ability to see what is black and what is red; for only the red words come from a man's heart.  But without dying to self, a woman will never gain the ability to  hear the difference in black and red words from her man's mouth.  And what woman would do ALL OF THAT for an EQUAL!!

Laying down one's life is easy to the woman who has no life; but to the woman who's larger than life, it can prove difficult.  Sad part is that REAL LOVE cannot take place until a woman duplicates her man's heart.  For no man can love a woman; a man can only love HIMSELF.  The woman who duplicates her man's heart earns his love, and becomes HIM in the spirit realm.  And together, they become ONE.  And THAT woman, who is ONE with her dude, can be more influential to him than even, God Himself!!

Love costs!!  And blue checks work just like white ones when it comes to paying the price!  Believe THAT!!

Rx.  Dr.Love

Another Round: The Fight For Love

On the verge of Perfected love.  But what is Perfect love:

Perfect love is when two people experience love the way it was designed.  For a woman, it equates to a dying to join a man as ONE in the spirit realm.  For a man, it equals an acceptance of a dead woman into his life, to speak for his INSIDES.

Perfect Love = Death!!  Death of a man's control of the mic in the relationship; Death of a woman's representing only herself.  And this Death is no homicide (Forced Move) ; this death is a suicide (Individual DECISION).

Even though you've arrived here in a strange, roundabout manner; bottom line: YOU'RE HERE!! At this point, each party in the relationship holds the ability to DESTROY the other.  If love calls you back together, knowing the risks; that same love has the power, to keep you forever in Bliss!

Don't sleep on the power of love...  for THAT power NEVER sleeps, nor slumber!


/Rx

Be blessed

Dr.Love

What Eve REALLY Did: The Truth About The Garden!!

Been studying Eve for some time now, and she's a BAD GIRL!!! I've met a few Eves in my life. In fact, I think EVERY woman should strive to be just like Eve in their relationships, and lead their men to ROYALTY!!

People have given Eve a bad rep for YEARS; for causing Adam to lose EV-ER-EE-THANG (*Kat Williams voice*) . In fact, the bad rep of Eve and that damn apple/orange/peach/WHATEVA is the 

leading reason for why men don't trust women in their relationships today. But I looked at the text, and don't quite see the problem.

First, Eve is not just any ole woman; she is the rib/mirror of her partner. When he looks at her, he sees himself. He trust her as much as he trust himself; for she has EARNED his trust by living on the inside of him long enough to create a duplicate heart on the outside. Adam not trusting Eve (after ALL THAT) equates to him not trusting himself...IMPOSSIBLE!!

So I looked further at the text, seeking the ADVANTAGE of eating the fruit...and BAM!!!

When God asked Adam why he broke the rule, Adam says he followed the one that came from the inside of him. God has no follow up questions for Adam...

If you get caught up on the "punishment", you'll miss what happens next: God sews Adam a coat. The more translations your read, the coat gets longer and longer and Longer. THINK on it a little while and the long coat will become a robe. MEDITATE on it a few times and the long robe will turn white. DREAM about it a few weeks and that long white robe will be topped with a CROWN. Have a few VISIONS about it and you'll hear the words: BEHOLD, He Looks Just Like ME

Don't sleep on Eve...she's a KING MAKER!!

Can She Love 2 Peeps At Once: Question Of The Century!!

Neighbor and her daughter were having an interesting conversation yesterday, and it caught my attention.  They were discussing the "problems" associated with loving more than one dude at the same time.  And while I was listening, being nosy as always, I hear the daughter ask her Moms for advice on what she should do next.  If I wasn't eavesdropping, I would've proudly interjected, "You can start by waking da HELL UP!!"

You can't love more than one person in the same damn life, let alone the same damn time!!  Hell you mean, is it possible!!  B*tch can you die more than once!!  Then why would you think you can love more than once!!  Who told you this!  Who made you believe love was THAT small!!  Who put that idea in your head!!  And for the record, love will NEVER be that damn cheap!!

That's what I wanted to say.  But, I digress...

Little frustrated this morning.  In fact, been a little frustrated all week.  People really think love is the same as dating.  People actually believe the notion that love doesn't cost a thing.  When in fact, love costs EV-ER-EE-THANG!! (*Kat Williams voice*).  Love costs your LIFE!!  And even though I hate admitting it, it is possible to love more than once in the same LIFE; but the process to doing so, is likened to the resurrection of Christ Himself!!  Good luck with that!!

Recently went to a friend's home.  Her boyfriend was talking.  And not just regular type words, but red words; the type that come straight from a man's heart.  But she couldn't hear the difference.  To her, his words sounded the same as everything else he said while I was in their apartment.  She couldn't differentiate. And the reason she couldn't was because she hadn't paid the price!

When I was sixteen, for four weeks straight I had dreams of being a great preacher.  So I took my TJ Maxx paycheck one Friday, and purchased what looked like the world's largest Bible.  Junk cost half of my paycheck!!  And when I got back to the crib, I noticed everything was in that book; including RED WORDS!!  Based on the price I paid, I no longer needed to underline passages or borrow highlighters to distinguish when LOVE was talking.  The price was high because these amenities were built in!

Relationships are the exact same.  Men pour their hearts out all the time in relationships, but not every woman can distinguish between the black and RED words.  And the reason is because they haven't paid the price!  DEATH is the price for a woman to hear love.  And unless she has paid that price in her relationship, she will never hold her man's heart. PERIOD!!

A man's heart is revealed by his words.  If a woman wants her man to love her, she must have a mirror image of his heart.  "Bone of his Bone".  You gotta look like him underneath!!  But it's gonna cost something!  Your life!!

Dr.Love

Cardiac Arrest: How To Properly Submit to The Cuffs of Love!

"Flesh Of My Flesh"  and "Bone Of My Bone"  This is how the first man that walked the earth describes the love he is experiencing.  And he goes on to say, that this love that he is experiencing, qualifies one to leave their father and mother and cleave unto the woman that they commit to.  Cleave equates to stick like glue.  So, according to the first man, love allows one to stick like glue to what they commit to.  That's pretty POWERFUL!!

Love for a man is really all about shelter for his heart.  Man finds shelter in the love of his parents.  But according to Adam, when a man meets the woman who holds the capacity to house his heart, he will release his parents of their "heart housing" responsibility, and look to his woman for his heart's new HOME!!

A man's heart is simply his words.  If a man speaks long enough, he will eventually leak words that are bloody red.  These words are the foundation of his heart.  For a woman to get a man to release bloody red words, she must meet the requirements.  An old deacon once told me that the difference between the Bible which had all black words, and the one that contained red words, is the price one is willing to pay!!  So if a girl wants to pull a man's heart through his mouth, she must pay the price.  And that price is DEATH!!  She must lay down her life to HEAR the words; she must temporarily die to self to hear the blood!!  And the blood of a man's heart speaks from the ground floor, LOUDLY!!

Dr.Love

The INDEPENDENT Chic: Potential Nightmare On Love Street!!

"I N D E P E N D E N T...do you know what that means, BOY?"  That's what a girl told me a few years back; and she wasn't just singing Webbie's latest track, either.  This girl wanted me to know that she was too successful as a woman, to even consider being a HOUSE-wife.  And that was cool with me... but I wonder how many women realize that when it comes to love, ALL WOMEN must qualify as a HOUSE wife.

A man loves (romantically) the way God loves, by reaction. God loves what loves Him. PERIOD!!  But women love differently.  A woman loves the way Christ loves; through acts of dying for something.  And when a girl lays down her life, she QUALIFIES to join a man in the spirit realm.  For men can ONLY LOVE that which is able to join them in the realm of the spirit. And death is the prerequisite to joining another in the spirit realm.  Love is a spiritual process!

No matter how much money a girl makes, or how I.N.D.E.P.E.N.D.E.N.T she may be; in order for her to receive a man's love, she MUST QUALIFY as a HOUSE-wife.  "HOUSE-wife" is a spiritual ranking.  A HOUSE-wife can be a lawyer, doctor, or 4-Star General; she can be a bad cook and horrible cleaner; have a junkie car and even worse state of affairs for a bathroom... as long as she houses a man's heart, she qualifies.

A man's heart spills from his mouth via words and sentences.  If a girl lays down her life long enough, she runs the chance of seeing her guys words as bricks; and holds the chance to build with those bricks.  A HOUSE is simply a guy's external heart.  And that HOUSE is not found on a street or curve.  That house is a mobile one.  Yes, a MOBILE HOME...found in the presence of the woman who loves her man.  Wherever that girl's feet are planted, her man's HOUSE is located.

HOME, for a man, will always be where his heart is!

Sleeping Beauties 101: Coma TOASTED LOVERS!!

The story of Adam & Eve has ALWAYS intrigued me.  In fact, I happen to think it's the world's greatest love story.  Where else can you find two individuals who survive the basic hardships of relationship, to make it to that destination called LOVE ?  Their story serves as the PERFECT romantic love paradigm, if you ask me.

The story of Adam and Eve is told from the view of Adam.  So some may get confused and think that Eve was not with Adam from the beginning; but she was right there!!

When Adam was chasing cats; Eve was there.  When Adam was hanging with dogs; she was there.  When Adam went from Garden keeper to zoo supervisor; she was there to see how excited he got to manage them Lions, Tigers and Bears!  And that same Eve was there when Adam experienced the problem that had no name.  Adam appeared to have it all, but something still felt missing.

So God caused a deep period to fall upon Adam.  And during this time Adam experienced something so heavy that it caused him to enter into a deep sleep.  And this is HUGE, because the eyeballs produce sight, but the eyelids produce VISION!  So when God allows a man to experience something that knocks him down, it's never to take him out, but rather give him a chance to see from within.

When Adam makes it through this rough spell, he awakes with vision.  And now he is able to see his life clearer than before.  And since Eve stayed inside of Adam long enough for him to find himself, he names her WIFE as soon as his eyes are open.

Women gotta understand that divine partnership is like a drink to a man at a dinner table; it's hard for him to know what to select until his meal arrives!  Purpose is man's meal of life.  And without a clear vision of that meal, selecting a drink to accompany it will be pretty difficult.  And as an old Cheddars waiter told me years ago... a whole lotta drinkin with no meal in front of you, is just plain ole THIRSTY!!

Dr Love.

The Science to Earning a Man's Love!!

Girls get angry when they discover their guy doesn't love them.  But truth be told... WE CAN'T!!

Men are made in the likeness of GOD!!  To understand our wiring, one must first look into the wiring of God Himself.  God (not Christ Jesus...but God) does not have the capacity to love what is not Himself.  Men are the same when it comes to romantic relationships.  We DO NOT have the capability to love what is not apart of us.  If women could understand that, there wouldn't be so much frustration in relationships today.

Adam did not love Eve; Adam loved Adam!!  Eve experienced Adam's love because she came from the INSIDES of Adam. And when she got on the scene, she didn't know that her little 5 sentence relationship with Adam would be STRONGER than his 5 page relationship with GOD!!  POWERFUL is the woman who's experienced the INSIDES of a man!!

A woman does not love like GOD, but rather like Christ.  A woman must make a DECISION to die for what she loves.  This means that she shuts herself down long enough to gain entrance into a man's inner parts.  And she stays inside of him long enough, to when she steps outside of him, she holds the capability to speak for his house, or rather his INSIDES!!  A girl cannot make that type of DECISION for everybody.  In fact, she can't make the DECISION to enter into a man unless his heart grants her access.  But when she receives access... and processes through...she leaves out, not just a rib... but a RIB CAGE!!  And a man will GIVE HIS LIFE for the protector of his INSIDES!!

Dr.Love

The Call of Love Has No *69

Love is NOT a production of the brain; love is a product of the HEART!!  But the body has 2 hearts: One that sits in the chest (that connects to the brain).  And one that sits in the stomach (that connects to the spirit realm).  Love is spiritual, and thereby is a product of the spirit (stomach heart).

Hardest thing for folk to understand about love today, is that it cannot be MANIPULATED.  For manipulation is an act of the brain; but love itself is not a byproduct of the brain.

Love CANNOT BE SEEN!!  In fact, after one makes a DECISION to love, they lose the ability to see the return. SIDE NOTE:  If someone can tell you what is not loving them back, that someone is NOT loving. For love itself cannot see in the day; love can only see in the night.  Not even Jesus Himself has the ability to fully see who loves Him.  After His eyes closed for what He loved, He exchanged His sight for vision.  And the eyeballs have no ability to see vision; but the eyelids HOLD the VISION of love!!  Sounds really deep, but the ability to love has never really been a small process.  And that process is EXPERIENCED without a return.  Love is an INDIVIDUAL CALL.  And it has no *69!!

Dr.Love

The HEART is Like WEED!! Puff Puff & PASS the HIGH!!

The heart is like Medical Weed; you must FIRST obtain permission to smoke it. THEN, after you've obtained permission to smoke; you must smoke ENOUGH, to get not only yourself high, but ALSO the holder of the heart!!

Love is a form of Heaven, which requires a DEATH of the brain to SEE. For no man can SEE love and still live!! Sight is different than vision. Sight is what the brain allows one to see; VISION is what is seen when the brain cannot see!! The Brain has not been granted access to Heaven; and love is a product of the Heavens. So in order to SEE love one must be brain DEAD!

Love is a Game of Earning Bullets and Taking Shots! And when one has earned the bullets from another's heart chamber, and then makes the DECISION to blow their own brains out; then and ONLY then will they SEE that which is the product of Heaven. Then and ONLY then, will they see that which is LOVE!!

Dr. Love

Do U Smell What The Rock Is Cooking!...Hump Day Poem

What is the ROCK cooking? Looking from above one can only see dirt. Rocks sit all day long on hard mud that works EXTRA HARD to stay under what it KNOWS will hurt. But when the Rock DECIDES to move his weight that which is beneath TRANSFORMS the place of dirt into imprints in the cement that the ROCK itself birthed! Do U Smell What The Rock Is Cooking!!  #StonedPlants ##HardRockCafe

-DrLove

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Be blessed,
Dr Love

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God bless!
Dr Love

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Be blessed
Dr Love

Chris Brown's FORTUNE ALBUM: Why I Support TEAM Breezy!

This album represents EVERYTHING to me.  And honestly, it should represent EVERYTHING to you, as well! From the old men who had dreams, but were denied the chance to live them; to the young men who have dreams but are facing life sentences of rejection because of one mistake.  This latest Chris Brown album is for EVERYONE!!

Fortune represents the comeback!  This album represents the 2nd chance!  The album represents life after death! Dare I say, this album represents RESURRECTION!

We couldn't give Michael Vick a ring, but more than just Eagle fans were rooting for Philadelphia last year.  People who had never tuned into football a day in their lives, were watching and praying earnestly for Vick to make it all the way.  Why...because down inside every human has the humane belief of and IN 2nd chances.  We are people who believe in comebacks!

Well, Michael Vick didn't make it to the Superbowl last year, BUT you can still support the movement, by purchasing the Fortune cd come Tuesday.  The success of this cd represents the victory that we wanted Vick, and everyone like him, to achieve.  We are a people who believe in comebacks!  And even though we had no power to push Vick's team to the finish line, we do possess the power to stand in line, and purchase a Chris Brown Fortune cd this Tuesday!

This cd is the 2nd chance your uncle, cousin, pops, or even brother, may not have ever received.  This cd is LIFE after death!  The success of this cd is what we are ALL capable of, if shown love after surviving a dark place.  THIS cd represents all that's good within you.  This cd represents all that's possible within me!

Imagine if we had the purchasing power to BUY Michael Vick a Superbowl ring after making it through all that he did.  Well, the purchasing of the Chris Brown FORTUNE album, this Tuesday, is your chance to represent!  Falling once or twice, is inevitable in this life.  Getting the opportunity to stand after having fallen, is not guaranteed.  But the passion to attempt to stand anyway, after being denied help is a MOVEMENT!

Team Breezy is a movement that's charting new territory.  My goal is to support as much as possible.  And I can start Tuesday, by purchasing a Chris Brown FORTUNE cd!

Be blessed
Dr Love

Homeward Bound: My Poem Inspired by T Morrison's "Home"

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Tears From Heaven: My Poem On Loving All Gifts From Above

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"That Girl Is Like Butter!!" My Poem On Loving An Unstable Heart!

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"She is COLD!" My Poem on Loving a Heart On Ice!

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Dr Love

A Whole New World: What Aladdin Would Say About Love Today!

This year we celebrate the 20th anniversary of the Disney movie Aladdin.  Great movie! And the soundtrack includes one of the greatest duets of all time: Peabo Bryson's "A Whole New World".  Good stuff!!  Anyways, my question really isn't about the movie, or, even the soundtrack, for that matter.  I want to know if the character Aladdin was flying his little carpet around today, would he be able to recognize love, like he did in the movie, twenty years ago.  Times have changed, but has love remained the same?  Or do we have a whole new world, which in itself, has a whole new love?

I love talking with my former church members about relationships.  To have someone seek out your opinion on a matter feels incredible; and to have multiple people to do so, feels amazing!  However, as much as I love talking my head off about this thing called love, I abhor talking with young people about their relationship issues.  No matter how much you share with young folk, you have to recognize that there is a generational shift in relationship rules.  And that shift makes the current relationship climate, for a lack of better terms, a whole new world!

SPRUNG... it's the "new love".  It's a noticeable connection that people discover after connecting with an individual's body, spiritually.  Sprung can mask itself as love, easily, because not every connection attempt outside of love is a failure.  Sprung is that connection attempt outside of love, that's successful.  Sprung is the result of two people, communicating successfully, without the use of words.  Sprung is when two people have great conversations with their bodies, and one or both parties connects with the other, spiritually.  And Sprung can occur without sex having ever taken place between the two people...ever. Wow!!

LOVE is different.  Love exists in the spirit realm.  EVERYTHING in the spirit realm is established by words, including LOVE!  Therefore, a man cannot have a relationship today with love, and words from the heart not be used somewhere in the connection of that relationship.  Love is a spiritual connection that uses words from the heart, as the connector.  And the process of loving another leads to love FOREVER. Sprung on the other hand, is temporal; no matter how strong the relationship may feel, the connection ends, eventually. Always!

The greatest task for folk of older generations, while having relationship talks with kids of the current generation, is to recognize the power of Sprung.  In this climate where a person can be in a relationship for five or six years and not feel even a slight connection, makes the "sprung" connections feel like love, to the person who has never experienced love.

My goal in these next few days, is to do an in-depth study of this so called, "New Love".  And hopefully by the time I'm done, there will be numerous postings I can reference in dealing with issues involving generational love.  As I always told my church, if we lift love up, it will draw every man unto itself.  I pray my blog strengthens your hands as you continue to lift love up!


Be blessed!
Dr Love

The Blueprint to Love Building: How to Clock the Speed of Cupid's Arrow!

Everywhere I travel, women consistently explain to me how much they REFUSE to build a man.  "If he ain't built by the time he gets to me, I don't want his un-built ass...PERIOD!"  That's what one close friend of mine recently shared with me.  And I can't argue with that, either; because building a man is definitely an IMPOSSIBLE feat for someone who is not a man (ie women).  But building LOVE, on the other hand, is a REQUIREMENT for every woman who desires a loving relationship.  Knowing and UNDERSTANDING the difference between "MAN- building" and "Love- building" is a MUST in the journey to discovering divine partnership!

My path recently crossed with two friends whom I hadn't seen since high school.  One was a construction laborer and the other was an architect.  And it just so happened that they now worked for the same construction company, which had several contracts in the part of the city in which I lived.  But the crazy thing is that I couldn't remember which story belonged to which person.  And they both were outside of 7-11 working on a construction site, together.  I recognized their face, but couldn't identify their story.  But when I got closer to the site, even though they had on the same uniform, I could identify the architect by the papers that were in his hand.   This reminded me that love builders are the same way; either we work the construction that's already in existence, or we carry the plans for new construction.  I pray that you will make a decision to become an architect of love on today!

Love is individual!  This means that we all will have to go through the process of love for every, single, person, that we will make a decision to love in this life.  And if one finds herself in the process of love, she must also find herself in the process of home building.  Because as a woman progresses in the process of love, that same woman also progresses in the process of home building.

Philosopher Gaius Plinius Secundus has a quote attributed to him that goes "Home is where the heart is!"  This is especially true in love building.  When a man speaks, rocks drop from his heart.  Bible says, "out of the abundance of a man's heart his mouth bringeth forth words".  This all means that by virtue of listening to a man speak, a woman gains the supplies needed to build a man a home.  Home in this sense, means spiritual shelter.  And this shelter is found in the presence of a loving woman.


 It takes a woman with love, to take the rocks that fall from a man's mouth, and collect those rocks, and then build shelter for that same man in your presence, utilizing those same rocks.

A man should feel something different in the presence of a woman that loves him.  It should almost feel as if there is a protection from the outside in this woman's presence.  And the "home" in which this woman should build for this man, should feel like it's specifically designed JUST FOR HIM!  Because love is just that...individual!  And when one builds a home specifically for someone, that someone should feel like the owner when they step inside!

Be blessed,
Dr Love

Finding Eve Before Night... The Power of a Woman's Love!

In the Bible, in the book of Genesis, a man named Adam has a father named God; who's also his boss...and landlord...and friend...and a host of many other titles that make his position to Adam a very unique one.  THIS powerful being God, gives Adam one rule; which is to not eat from a certain tree.  But the woman whom Adam knew a shorter amount of time, tells Adam to eat from the tree that God forbids him to eat from.  Adam listens to the woman and ignores this powerful being, who knew him longer; who also happens to be his boss...and landlord...and friend...and GOD!  How powerful is this woman?

The Eve in the Bible represents a woman who knows the INSIDES of her man.  She knows his desires; she knows his wants;  she knows his past; she can predict his future!  When God discovered that Adam ignored Him and ate from the tree after He commanded him not to, He then asked Adam, why.  Adam says clearly, the woman told me to!  How powerful is this woman?

For a woman to obtain the power of Eve in a 2012 relationship environment, she would need to have that which Eve had.  In order to have the power of Eve a woman would need to ensure that her words to her man are based upon his insides!  "Eve" is simply a conversation.  "Eve" is simply words spoken in a man's hearing that are based on the insides of that man.  For a woman to be considered an Eve today, she would need to tailor her words to her man's inner parts.  And a woman can't get inside unless given permission by God.  And God doesn't give permission today unless that woman has qualified as a lover to that man!

Eve is simply a spiritual qualification/ranking that a woman picks up in the process of loving a man.  If you don't have the qual; you don't have the love!

Be blessed,

Dr Love

911 Emergency... I Love a Johnny Who Don't Love Me!

My friend Samantha says that she has an emergency, and needs to talk!  Her relationship with her boyfriend John of 11 months, is going nowhere.  Within the past 11 month period, Samantha has put in all of the work, including love.  And STILL John doesn't return her love.  What the hell is wrong with this dude?  Samantha wants to know!

I LAUGH when women tell me, they love a man who doesn't love them. I LAUGH even harder when those same women tell me, that the man who isn't returning their love resides within their home.  Sorry ladies, but that's NOT POSSIBLE!!

Hate to be the one to crack the cherry on the subject, but Love is not that simple!  Even though love is individual, there is still a process (protocol) to obtaining it for another person.  And obtaining love for another has three STEPS:  1.Meet.  2. Know.  3.Decide.  And even though these steps appear small individually, they are actually very difficult to obtain collectively.

According to Samantha, she met John eleven months ago; got to know him well enough for love to be an option; then made a decision to love him.  Now she's in love?  She really thinks it's that simple? Wow!!

Meeting someone is very simple; you can meet people just about anywhere these days. As long as man has an ability to be lost, that same man also has the ability to be found.  And you can find a man ANYWHERE!  So meeting another is not difficult.  The process to love gets tricky at the knowing stage.  I say tricky because knowing requires two parties.

If the one who desires to know another seeks to know, it means nothing if the one who is sought out refuses to allow himself the ability to be known.  The process of knowing another is a difficult one because it involves dealing with hurts and pains.  I know women who have been in relationships for two and three years, who know absolutely nothing about the guy they "supposedly" love.  They know nothing because the one they're attempting to know isn't allowing himself to be known.  Love REQUIRES knowing another, and Knowing REQUIRES permission from the desired.

Even though love is an individual process that allows an individual to love another who may not love them, it STILL requires that the individual know another.  Love is spiritual!  You can't love another until you get their permission, which is given by the revealing of their heart.  If a man reveals his heart to a woman, that woman then has permission to continue in the process to loving that man.  And even if the man doesn't return her love, she still will have the ability to make a DECISION to love the man based on her ability to get him to allow himself to be known.

Once a woman makes it through the process of loving a man, she experiences the POWER of love.  And even though the man may not have started the process to loving her, she now has the POWER to get him to. Her love for him will CHANGE HER WORDS!  And her WORDS to him will CHANGE HIS HEART!

The emergency my friend Samantha really has is that "the Like" she has for Johnny isn't the Love that she thought it was.  Love is a transforming POWER!  If what you love isn't transformed, you don't really LOVE it!

Be blessed!

Dr. Love

Understanding The Title of Lover!

It humors me to hear the number of people who think it impossible to love that which does not love them.  Sorry guys; it's not only possible, but also very common!  Love is INDIVIDUAL!  This means that the power of Love is made known at the point of DECISION.  And the ability to make a decision to love another is not restricted to just those individuals who are loved or will be loved in the future.  As long as an INDIVIDUAL progresses through the three steps of the Love Process, they are entitled to wear the title of LOVER at completion of that process.  And yes, there are many lovers who are unloved!

Sally met Johnny.  Sally put in the time to know Johnny.  Sally then made a decision to love Johnny.  Even though Johnny refused to take the time to know Sally, by virtue of him allowing Sally to know him, he gave Sally the spiritual right to love him.  Sally will now experience the power of love.  She will experience the power of love, because the power of love is made known after an individual DECISION is made to love.

The power of the decision to love, and the power of being IN- LOVE are two separate, powerful things!  Being IN-love is a result of two people who have made a DECISION to love in the same relationship.  Our world has many lovers, but very few of those individuals are IN-Love.  My goal is to change that through the sharing of my cupidical protocols.  One day soon, the numbers will change!

Be blessed,

Doctor Love

The Breakfast Table of Love

A father wakes his son early one morning, and invites him to the table.  He tells his son that he is preparing a meal that will be good for him.  He also tells the son to go to the store and purchase a drink for the meal he is preparing.  The father gives the son more than enough money to buy whatever drink that he would like.  However, before the father could say another word, the son was off to the store to purchase a drink for the meal he was preparing.

While in the store, the son is blown away by all of the options he must choose from.  So many drinks, so many options!  And the money to buy ANY, SINGLE, ONE!  The son is too excited!  He chooses to buy a Dr.Pepper for the meal his father is preparing.  So he selects the tall, dark, soda and runs to the register to buy his selected drink.

Once the son returns home, he runs through the door and to the table.  He can't wait to eat the meal father has prepared.  As father comes from the kitchen, the son is shocked by the bowl he lays before him.  How on Earth can his Dr.Pepper wash down Captain Crunch?

The moral of the story is as simple as partnership itself:  THERE ARE NOT THAT MANY OPTIONS!  God gives every single person on this Earth a purpose, which is their meal.  And His goal is for us to complete that meal before we leave this Earth.  Partnership is simply a drink for the meal God has prepared for us.  And even though he gives us options through free will, those options really don't lead to much to choose from.

If the kid in the story knew his father was making him a bowl of cereal, would he really have as many options as he did in the store?  Outside of deciding between black, white, lowfat, and skim, the son would have never allowed his eyes to leave the milk aisle.  Finding a partner is just that simple!  We are not looking in the whole store; we are simply looking for our meal's best match.  That's it!  Just that simple!  The table of Love is easy, because it's a Breakfast Table.  What's brought to it is for the start of day!

Be blessed,
Doctor Love

What is Love

What is Love?  If you are asking this question, CONGRATULATIONS!  The raising of the mere question itself signals the questioner's potential to Love.  But what is Love?  Well, Love is a NOUN!  Yes, Love is a Person, Place, and that which is a Thing!  And ain't it funny, though, that you can be with a person you Love, In a place that you Love, and STILL not have that thing (RING!) that signals Love to the world?

Well, my goal in blogging is to share my gift of Love through lessons for you!  I am one who was gifted with Love by God Himself.  I was taught Love.  I was trained in Love.  I was given the greatest spiritual ranking of Love, which is Charity!  What's a gift without the ability to give it!  I'm thankful for God not only making me a Lover, but also thinking enough of me to make me charitable with that Love!  I pray you take these lessons as food for your soul.  Love is food, and these lessons are Love!  Eat and be FULL!

God bless,

  Doctor Love