Everywhere I travel, women consistently explain to me how much they REFUSE to build a man. "If he ain't built by the time he gets to me, I don't want his un-built ass...PERIOD!" That's what one close friend of mine recently shared with me. And I can't argue with that, either; because building a man is definitely an IMPOSSIBLE feat for someone who is not a man (ie women). But building LOVE, on the other hand, is a REQUIREMENT for every woman who desires a loving relationship. Knowing and UNDERSTANDING the difference between "MAN- building" and "Love- building" is a MUST in the journey to discovering divine partnership!
My path recently crossed with two friends whom I hadn't seen since high school. One was a construction laborer and the other was an architect. And it just so happened that they now worked for the same construction company, which had several contracts in the part of the city in which I lived. But the crazy thing is that I couldn't remember which story belonged to which person. And they both were outside of 7-11 working on a construction site, together. I recognized their face, but couldn't identify their story. But when I got closer to the site, even though they had on the same uniform, I could identify the architect by the papers that were in his hand. This reminded me that love builders are the same way; either we work the construction that's already in existence, or we carry the plans for new construction. I pray that you will make a decision to become an architect of love on today!
Love is individual! This means that we all will have to go through the process of love for every, single, person, that we will make a decision to love in this life. And if one finds herself in the process of love, she must also find herself in the process of home building. Because as a woman progresses in the process of love, that same woman also progresses in the process of home building.
Philosopher Gaius Plinius Secundus has a quote attributed to him that goes "Home is where the heart is!" This is especially true in love building. When a man speaks, rocks drop from his heart. Bible says, "out of the abundance of a man's heart his mouth bringeth forth words". This all means that by virtue of listening to a man speak, a woman gains the supplies needed to build a man a home. Home in this sense, means spiritual shelter. And this shelter is found in the presence of a loving woman.
It takes a woman with love, to take the rocks that fall from a man's mouth, and collect those rocks, and then build shelter for that same man in your presence, utilizing those same rocks.
A man should feel something different in the presence of a woman that loves him. It should almost feel as if there is a protection from the outside in this woman's presence. And the "home" in which this woman should build for this man, should feel like it's specifically designed JUST FOR HIM! Because love is just that...individual! And when one builds a home specifically for someone, that someone should feel like the owner when they step inside!
Be blessed,
Dr Love
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