Dr Love
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Thursday, June 21, 2012
A Whole New World: What Aladdin Would Say About Love Today!
This year we celebrate the 20th anniversary of the Disney movie Aladdin. Great movie! And the soundtrack includes one of the greatest duets of all time: Peabo Bryson's "A Whole New World". Good stuff!! Anyways, my question really isn't about the movie, or, even the soundtrack, for that matter. I want to know if the character Aladdin was flying his little carpet around today, would he be able to recognize love, like he did in the movie, twenty years ago. Times have changed, but has love remained the same? Or do we have a whole new world, which in itself, has a whole new love?
I love talking with my former church members about relationships. To have someone seek out your opinion on a matter feels incredible; and to have multiple people to do so, feels amazing! However, as much as I love talking my head off about this thing called love, I abhor talking with young people about their relationship issues. No matter how much you share with young folk, you have to recognize that there is a generational shift in relationship rules. And that shift makes the current relationship climate, for a lack of better terms, a whole new world!
SPRUNG... it's the "new love". It's a noticeable connection that people discover after connecting with an individual's body, spiritually. Sprung can mask itself as love, easily, because not every connection attempt outside of love is a failure. Sprung is that connection attempt outside of love, that's successful. Sprung is the result of two people, communicating successfully, without the use of words. Sprung is when two people have great conversations with their bodies, and one or both parties connects with the other, spiritually. And Sprung can occur without sex having ever taken place between the two people...ever. Wow!!
LOVE is different. Love exists in the spirit realm. EVERYTHING in the spirit realm is established by words, including LOVE! Therefore, a man cannot have a relationship today with love, and words from the heart not be used somewhere in the connection of that relationship. Love is a spiritual connection that uses words from the heart, as the connector. And the process of loving another leads to love FOREVER. Sprung on the other hand, is temporal; no matter how strong the relationship may feel, the connection ends, eventually. Always!
The greatest task for folk of older generations, while having relationship talks with kids of the current generation, is to recognize the power of Sprung. In this climate where a person can be in a relationship for five or six years and not feel even a slight connection, makes the "sprung" connections feel like love, to the person who has never experienced love.
My goal in these next few days, is to do an in-depth study of this so called, "New Love". And hopefully by the time I'm done, there will be numerous postings I can reference in dealing with issues involving generational love. As I always told my church, if we lift love up, it will draw every man unto itself. I pray my blog strengthens your hands as you continue to lift love up!
Be blessed!
Dr Love
I love talking with my former church members about relationships. To have someone seek out your opinion on a matter feels incredible; and to have multiple people to do so, feels amazing! However, as much as I love talking my head off about this thing called love, I abhor talking with young people about their relationship issues. No matter how much you share with young folk, you have to recognize that there is a generational shift in relationship rules. And that shift makes the current relationship climate, for a lack of better terms, a whole new world!
SPRUNG... it's the "new love". It's a noticeable connection that people discover after connecting with an individual's body, spiritually. Sprung can mask itself as love, easily, because not every connection attempt outside of love is a failure. Sprung is that connection attempt outside of love, that's successful. Sprung is the result of two people, communicating successfully, without the use of words. Sprung is when two people have great conversations with their bodies, and one or both parties connects with the other, spiritually. And Sprung can occur without sex having ever taken place between the two people...ever. Wow!!
LOVE is different. Love exists in the spirit realm. EVERYTHING in the spirit realm is established by words, including LOVE! Therefore, a man cannot have a relationship today with love, and words from the heart not be used somewhere in the connection of that relationship. Love is a spiritual connection that uses words from the heart, as the connector. And the process of loving another leads to love FOREVER. Sprung on the other hand, is temporal; no matter how strong the relationship may feel, the connection ends, eventually. Always!
The greatest task for folk of older generations, while having relationship talks with kids of the current generation, is to recognize the power of Sprung. In this climate where a person can be in a relationship for five or six years and not feel even a slight connection, makes the "sprung" connections feel like love, to the person who has never experienced love.
My goal in these next few days, is to do an in-depth study of this so called, "New Love". And hopefully by the time I'm done, there will be numerous postings I can reference in dealing with issues involving generational love. As I always told my church, if we lift love up, it will draw every man unto itself. I pray my blog strengthens your hands as you continue to lift love up!
Be blessed!
Dr Love
Tuesday, June 19, 2012
The Blueprint to Love Building: How to Clock the Speed of Cupid's Arrow!
Everywhere I travel, women consistently explain to me how much they REFUSE to build a man. "If he ain't built by the time he gets to me, I don't want his un-built ass...PERIOD!" That's what one close friend of mine recently shared with me. And I can't argue with that, either; because building a man is definitely an IMPOSSIBLE feat for someone who is not a man (ie women). But building LOVE, on the other hand, is a REQUIREMENT for every woman who desires a loving relationship. Knowing and UNDERSTANDING the difference between "MAN- building" and "Love- building" is a MUST in the journey to discovering divine partnership!
My path recently crossed with two friends whom I hadn't seen since high school. One was a construction laborer and the other was an architect. And it just so happened that they now worked for the same construction company, which had several contracts in the part of the city in which I lived. But the crazy thing is that I couldn't remember which story belonged to which person. And they both were outside of 7-11 working on a construction site, together. I recognized their face, but couldn't identify their story. But when I got closer to the site, even though they had on the same uniform, I could identify the architect by the papers that were in his hand. This reminded me that love builders are the same way; either we work the construction that's already in existence, or we carry the plans for new construction. I pray that you will make a decision to become an architect of love on today!
Love is individual! This means that we all will have to go through the process of love for every, single, person, that we will make a decision to love in this life. And if one finds herself in the process of love, she must also find herself in the process of home building. Because as a woman progresses in the process of love, that same woman also progresses in the process of home building.
Philosopher Gaius Plinius Secundus has a quote attributed to him that goes "Home is where the heart is!" This is especially true in love building. When a man speaks, rocks drop from his heart. Bible says, "out of the abundance of a man's heart his mouth bringeth forth words". This all means that by virtue of listening to a man speak, a woman gains the supplies needed to build a man a home. Home in this sense, means spiritual shelter. And this shelter is found in the presence of a loving woman.
It takes a woman with love, to take the rocks that fall from a man's mouth, and collect those rocks, and then build shelter for that same man in your presence, utilizing those same rocks.
A man should feel something different in the presence of a woman that loves him. It should almost feel as if there is a protection from the outside in this woman's presence. And the "home" in which this woman should build for this man, should feel like it's specifically designed JUST FOR HIM! Because love is just that...individual! And when one builds a home specifically for someone, that someone should feel like the owner when they step inside!
Be blessed,
Dr Love
My path recently crossed with two friends whom I hadn't seen since high school. One was a construction laborer and the other was an architect. And it just so happened that they now worked for the same construction company, which had several contracts in the part of the city in which I lived. But the crazy thing is that I couldn't remember which story belonged to which person. And they both were outside of 7-11 working on a construction site, together. I recognized their face, but couldn't identify their story. But when I got closer to the site, even though they had on the same uniform, I could identify the architect by the papers that were in his hand. This reminded me that love builders are the same way; either we work the construction that's already in existence, or we carry the plans for new construction. I pray that you will make a decision to become an architect of love on today!
Love is individual! This means that we all will have to go through the process of love for every, single, person, that we will make a decision to love in this life. And if one finds herself in the process of love, she must also find herself in the process of home building. Because as a woman progresses in the process of love, that same woman also progresses in the process of home building.
Philosopher Gaius Plinius Secundus has a quote attributed to him that goes "Home is where the heart is!" This is especially true in love building. When a man speaks, rocks drop from his heart. Bible says, "out of the abundance of a man's heart his mouth bringeth forth words". This all means that by virtue of listening to a man speak, a woman gains the supplies needed to build a man a home. Home in this sense, means spiritual shelter. And this shelter is found in the presence of a loving woman.
It takes a woman with love, to take the rocks that fall from a man's mouth, and collect those rocks, and then build shelter for that same man in your presence, utilizing those same rocks.
A man should feel something different in the presence of a woman that loves him. It should almost feel as if there is a protection from the outside in this woman's presence. And the "home" in which this woman should build for this man, should feel like it's specifically designed JUST FOR HIM! Because love is just that...individual! And when one builds a home specifically for someone, that someone should feel like the owner when they step inside!
Be blessed,
Dr Love
Monday, June 18, 2012
Finding Eve Before Night... The Power of a Woman's Love!
In the Bible, in the book of Genesis, a man named Adam has a father named God; who's also his boss...and landlord...and friend...and a host of many other titles that make his position to Adam a very unique one. THIS powerful being God, gives Adam one rule; which is to not eat from a certain tree. But the woman whom Adam knew a shorter amount of time, tells Adam to eat from the tree that God forbids him to eat from. Adam listens to the woman and ignores this powerful being, who knew him longer; who also happens to be his boss...and landlord...and friend...and GOD! How powerful is this woman?
The Eve in the Bible represents a woman who knows the INSIDES of her man. She knows his desires; she knows his wants; she knows his past; she can predict his future! When God discovered that Adam ignored Him and ate from the tree after He commanded him not to, He then asked Adam, why. Adam says clearly, the woman told me to! How powerful is this woman?
For a woman to obtain the power of Eve in a 2012 relationship environment, she would need to have that which Eve had. In order to have the power of Eve a woman would need to ensure that her words to her man are based upon his insides! "Eve" is simply a conversation. "Eve" is simply words spoken in a man's hearing that are based on the insides of that man. For a woman to be considered an Eve today, she would need to tailor her words to her man's inner parts. And a woman can't get inside unless given permission by God. And God doesn't give permission today unless that woman has qualified as a lover to that man!
Eve is simply a spiritual qualification/ranking that a woman picks up in the process of loving a man. If you don't have the qual; you don't have the love!
Be blessed,
Dr Love
The Eve in the Bible represents a woman who knows the INSIDES of her man. She knows his desires; she knows his wants; she knows his past; she can predict his future! When God discovered that Adam ignored Him and ate from the tree after He commanded him not to, He then asked Adam, why. Adam says clearly, the woman told me to! How powerful is this woman?
For a woman to obtain the power of Eve in a 2012 relationship environment, she would need to have that which Eve had. In order to have the power of Eve a woman would need to ensure that her words to her man are based upon his insides! "Eve" is simply a conversation. "Eve" is simply words spoken in a man's hearing that are based on the insides of that man. For a woman to be considered an Eve today, she would need to tailor her words to her man's inner parts. And a woman can't get inside unless given permission by God. And God doesn't give permission today unless that woman has qualified as a lover to that man!
Eve is simply a spiritual qualification/ranking that a woman picks up in the process of loving a man. If you don't have the qual; you don't have the love!
Be blessed,
Dr Love
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