Dr Love
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Thursday, June 21, 2012
A Whole New World: What Aladdin Would Say About Love Today!
This year we celebrate the 20th anniversary of the Disney movie Aladdin. Great movie! And the soundtrack includes one of the greatest duets of all time: Peabo Bryson's "A Whole New World". Good stuff!! Anyways, my question really isn't about the movie, or, even the soundtrack, for that matter. I want to know if the character Aladdin was flying his little carpet around today, would he be able to recognize love, like he did in the movie, twenty years ago. Times have changed, but has love remained the same? Or do we have a whole new world, which in itself, has a whole new love?
I love talking with my former church members about relationships. To have someone seek out your opinion on a matter feels incredible; and to have multiple people to do so, feels amazing! However, as much as I love talking my head off about this thing called love, I abhor talking with young people about their relationship issues. No matter how much you share with young folk, you have to recognize that there is a generational shift in relationship rules. And that shift makes the current relationship climate, for a lack of better terms, a whole new world!
SPRUNG... it's the "new love". It's a noticeable connection that people discover after connecting with an individual's body, spiritually. Sprung can mask itself as love, easily, because not every connection attempt outside of love is a failure. Sprung is that connection attempt outside of love, that's successful. Sprung is the result of two people, communicating successfully, without the use of words. Sprung is when two people have great conversations with their bodies, and one or both parties connects with the other, spiritually. And Sprung can occur without sex having ever taken place between the two people...ever. Wow!!
LOVE is different. Love exists in the spirit realm. EVERYTHING in the spirit realm is established by words, including LOVE! Therefore, a man cannot have a relationship today with love, and words from the heart not be used somewhere in the connection of that relationship. Love is a spiritual connection that uses words from the heart, as the connector. And the process of loving another leads to love FOREVER. Sprung on the other hand, is temporal; no matter how strong the relationship may feel, the connection ends, eventually. Always!
The greatest task for folk of older generations, while having relationship talks with kids of the current generation, is to recognize the power of Sprung. In this climate where a person can be in a relationship for five or six years and not feel even a slight connection, makes the "sprung" connections feel like love, to the person who has never experienced love.
My goal in these next few days, is to do an in-depth study of this so called, "New Love". And hopefully by the time I'm done, there will be numerous postings I can reference in dealing with issues involving generational love. As I always told my church, if we lift love up, it will draw every man unto itself. I pray my blog strengthens your hands as you continue to lift love up!
Be blessed!
Dr Love
I love talking with my former church members about relationships. To have someone seek out your opinion on a matter feels incredible; and to have multiple people to do so, feels amazing! However, as much as I love talking my head off about this thing called love, I abhor talking with young people about their relationship issues. No matter how much you share with young folk, you have to recognize that there is a generational shift in relationship rules. And that shift makes the current relationship climate, for a lack of better terms, a whole new world!
SPRUNG... it's the "new love". It's a noticeable connection that people discover after connecting with an individual's body, spiritually. Sprung can mask itself as love, easily, because not every connection attempt outside of love is a failure. Sprung is that connection attempt outside of love, that's successful. Sprung is the result of two people, communicating successfully, without the use of words. Sprung is when two people have great conversations with their bodies, and one or both parties connects with the other, spiritually. And Sprung can occur without sex having ever taken place between the two people...ever. Wow!!
LOVE is different. Love exists in the spirit realm. EVERYTHING in the spirit realm is established by words, including LOVE! Therefore, a man cannot have a relationship today with love, and words from the heart not be used somewhere in the connection of that relationship. Love is a spiritual connection that uses words from the heart, as the connector. And the process of loving another leads to love FOREVER. Sprung on the other hand, is temporal; no matter how strong the relationship may feel, the connection ends, eventually. Always!
The greatest task for folk of older generations, while having relationship talks with kids of the current generation, is to recognize the power of Sprung. In this climate where a person can be in a relationship for five or six years and not feel even a slight connection, makes the "sprung" connections feel like love, to the person who has never experienced love.
My goal in these next few days, is to do an in-depth study of this so called, "New Love". And hopefully by the time I'm done, there will be numerous postings I can reference in dealing with issues involving generational love. As I always told my church, if we lift love up, it will draw every man unto itself. I pray my blog strengthens your hands as you continue to lift love up!
Be blessed!
Dr Love
Tuesday, June 19, 2012
The Blueprint to Love Building: How to Clock the Speed of Cupid's Arrow!
Everywhere I travel, women consistently explain to me how much they REFUSE to build a man. "If he ain't built by the time he gets to me, I don't want his un-built ass...PERIOD!" That's what one close friend of mine recently shared with me. And I can't argue with that, either; because building a man is definitely an IMPOSSIBLE feat for someone who is not a man (ie women). But building LOVE, on the other hand, is a REQUIREMENT for every woman who desires a loving relationship. Knowing and UNDERSTANDING the difference between "MAN- building" and "Love- building" is a MUST in the journey to discovering divine partnership!
My path recently crossed with two friends whom I hadn't seen since high school. One was a construction laborer and the other was an architect. And it just so happened that they now worked for the same construction company, which had several contracts in the part of the city in which I lived. But the crazy thing is that I couldn't remember which story belonged to which person. And they both were outside of 7-11 working on a construction site, together. I recognized their face, but couldn't identify their story. But when I got closer to the site, even though they had on the same uniform, I could identify the architect by the papers that were in his hand. This reminded me that love builders are the same way; either we work the construction that's already in existence, or we carry the plans for new construction. I pray that you will make a decision to become an architect of love on today!
Love is individual! This means that we all will have to go through the process of love for every, single, person, that we will make a decision to love in this life. And if one finds herself in the process of love, she must also find herself in the process of home building. Because as a woman progresses in the process of love, that same woman also progresses in the process of home building.
Philosopher Gaius Plinius Secundus has a quote attributed to him that goes "Home is where the heart is!" This is especially true in love building. When a man speaks, rocks drop from his heart. Bible says, "out of the abundance of a man's heart his mouth bringeth forth words". This all means that by virtue of listening to a man speak, a woman gains the supplies needed to build a man a home. Home in this sense, means spiritual shelter. And this shelter is found in the presence of a loving woman.
It takes a woman with love, to take the rocks that fall from a man's mouth, and collect those rocks, and then build shelter for that same man in your presence, utilizing those same rocks.
A man should feel something different in the presence of a woman that loves him. It should almost feel as if there is a protection from the outside in this woman's presence. And the "home" in which this woman should build for this man, should feel like it's specifically designed JUST FOR HIM! Because love is just that...individual! And when one builds a home specifically for someone, that someone should feel like the owner when they step inside!
Be blessed,
Dr Love
My path recently crossed with two friends whom I hadn't seen since high school. One was a construction laborer and the other was an architect. And it just so happened that they now worked for the same construction company, which had several contracts in the part of the city in which I lived. But the crazy thing is that I couldn't remember which story belonged to which person. And they both were outside of 7-11 working on a construction site, together. I recognized their face, but couldn't identify their story. But when I got closer to the site, even though they had on the same uniform, I could identify the architect by the papers that were in his hand. This reminded me that love builders are the same way; either we work the construction that's already in existence, or we carry the plans for new construction. I pray that you will make a decision to become an architect of love on today!
Love is individual! This means that we all will have to go through the process of love for every, single, person, that we will make a decision to love in this life. And if one finds herself in the process of love, she must also find herself in the process of home building. Because as a woman progresses in the process of love, that same woman also progresses in the process of home building.
Philosopher Gaius Plinius Secundus has a quote attributed to him that goes "Home is where the heart is!" This is especially true in love building. When a man speaks, rocks drop from his heart. Bible says, "out of the abundance of a man's heart his mouth bringeth forth words". This all means that by virtue of listening to a man speak, a woman gains the supplies needed to build a man a home. Home in this sense, means spiritual shelter. And this shelter is found in the presence of a loving woman.
It takes a woman with love, to take the rocks that fall from a man's mouth, and collect those rocks, and then build shelter for that same man in your presence, utilizing those same rocks.
A man should feel something different in the presence of a woman that loves him. It should almost feel as if there is a protection from the outside in this woman's presence. And the "home" in which this woman should build for this man, should feel like it's specifically designed JUST FOR HIM! Because love is just that...individual! And when one builds a home specifically for someone, that someone should feel like the owner when they step inside!
Be blessed,
Dr Love
Monday, June 18, 2012
Finding Eve Before Night... The Power of a Woman's Love!
In the Bible, in the book of Genesis, a man named Adam has a father named God; who's also his boss...and landlord...and friend...and a host of many other titles that make his position to Adam a very unique one. THIS powerful being God, gives Adam one rule; which is to not eat from a certain tree. But the woman whom Adam knew a shorter amount of time, tells Adam to eat from the tree that God forbids him to eat from. Adam listens to the woman and ignores this powerful being, who knew him longer; who also happens to be his boss...and landlord...and friend...and GOD! How powerful is this woman?
The Eve in the Bible represents a woman who knows the INSIDES of her man. She knows his desires; she knows his wants; she knows his past; she can predict his future! When God discovered that Adam ignored Him and ate from the tree after He commanded him not to, He then asked Adam, why. Adam says clearly, the woman told me to! How powerful is this woman?
For a woman to obtain the power of Eve in a 2012 relationship environment, she would need to have that which Eve had. In order to have the power of Eve a woman would need to ensure that her words to her man are based upon his insides! "Eve" is simply a conversation. "Eve" is simply words spoken in a man's hearing that are based on the insides of that man. For a woman to be considered an Eve today, she would need to tailor her words to her man's inner parts. And a woman can't get inside unless given permission by God. And God doesn't give permission today unless that woman has qualified as a lover to that man!
Eve is simply a spiritual qualification/ranking that a woman picks up in the process of loving a man. If you don't have the qual; you don't have the love!
Be blessed,
Dr Love
The Eve in the Bible represents a woman who knows the INSIDES of her man. She knows his desires; she knows his wants; she knows his past; she can predict his future! When God discovered that Adam ignored Him and ate from the tree after He commanded him not to, He then asked Adam, why. Adam says clearly, the woman told me to! How powerful is this woman?
For a woman to obtain the power of Eve in a 2012 relationship environment, she would need to have that which Eve had. In order to have the power of Eve a woman would need to ensure that her words to her man are based upon his insides! "Eve" is simply a conversation. "Eve" is simply words spoken in a man's hearing that are based on the insides of that man. For a woman to be considered an Eve today, she would need to tailor her words to her man's inner parts. And a woman can't get inside unless given permission by God. And God doesn't give permission today unless that woman has qualified as a lover to that man!
Eve is simply a spiritual qualification/ranking that a woman picks up in the process of loving a man. If you don't have the qual; you don't have the love!
Be blessed,
Dr Love
911 Emergency... I Love a Johnny Who Don't Love Me!
My friend Samantha says that she has an emergency, and needs to talk! Her relationship with her boyfriend John of 11 months, is going nowhere. Within the past 11 month period, Samantha has put in all of the work, including love. And STILL John doesn't return her love. What the hell is wrong with this dude? Samantha wants to know!
I LAUGH when women tell me, they love a man who doesn't love them. I LAUGH even harder when those same women tell me, that the man who isn't returning their love resides within their home. Sorry ladies, but that's NOT POSSIBLE!!
Hate to be the one to crack the cherry on the subject, but Love is not that simple! Even though love is individual, there is still a process (protocol) to obtaining it for another person. And obtaining love for another has three STEPS: 1.Meet. 2. Know. 3.Decide. And even though these steps appear small individually, they are actually very difficult to obtain collectively.
According to Samantha, she met John eleven months ago; got to know him well enough for love to be an option; then made a decision to love him. Now she's in love? She really thinks it's that simple? Wow!!
Meeting someone is very simple; you can meet people just about anywhere these days. As long as man has an ability to be lost, that same man also has the ability to be found. And you can find a man ANYWHERE! So meeting another is not difficult. The process to love gets tricky at the knowing stage. I say tricky because knowing requires two parties.
If the one who desires to know another seeks to know, it means nothing if the one who is sought out refuses to allow himself the ability to be known. The process of knowing another is a difficult one because it involves dealing with hurts and pains. I know women who have been in relationships for two and three years, who know absolutely nothing about the guy they "supposedly" love. They know nothing because the one they're attempting to know isn't allowing himself to be known. Love REQUIRES knowing another, and Knowing REQUIRES permission from the desired.
Even though love is an individual process that allows an individual to love another who may not love them, it STILL requires that the individual know another. Love is spiritual! You can't love another until you get their permission, which is given by the revealing of their heart. If a man reveals his heart to a woman, that woman then has permission to continue in the process to loving that man. And even if the man doesn't return her love, she still will have the ability to make a DECISION to love the man based on her ability to get him to allow himself to be known.
Once a woman makes it through the process of loving a man, she experiences the POWER of love. And even though the man may not have started the process to loving her, she now has the POWER to get him to. Her love for him will CHANGE HER WORDS! And her WORDS to him will CHANGE HIS HEART!
The emergency my friend Samantha really has is that "the Like" she has for Johnny isn't the Love that she thought it was. Love is a transforming POWER! If what you love isn't transformed, you don't really LOVE it!
Be blessed!
Dr. Love
Sunday, June 17, 2012
Understanding The Title of Lover!
It humors me to hear the number of people who think it impossible to love that which does not love them. Sorry guys; it's not only possible, but also very common! Love is INDIVIDUAL! This means that the power of Love is made known at the point of DECISION. And the ability to make a decision to love another is not restricted to just those individuals who are loved or will be loved in the future. As long as an INDIVIDUAL progresses through the three steps of the Love Process, they are entitled to wear the title of LOVER at completion of that process. And yes, there are many lovers who are unloved!
Sally met Johnny. Sally put in the time to know Johnny. Sally then made a decision to love Johnny. Even though Johnny refused to take the time to know Sally, by virtue of him allowing Sally to know him, he gave Sally the spiritual right to love him. Sally will now experience the power of love. She will experience the power of love, because the power of love is made known after an individual DECISION is made to love.
The power of the decision to love, and the power of being IN- LOVE are two separate, powerful things! Being IN-love is a result of two people who have made a DECISION to love in the same relationship. Our world has many lovers, but very few of those individuals are IN-Love. My goal is to change that through the sharing of my cupidical protocols. One day soon, the numbers will change!
Be blessed,
Doctor Love
The Breakfast Table of Love
A father wakes his son early one morning, and invites him to the table. He tells his son that he is preparing a meal that will be good for him. He also tells the son to go to the store and purchase a drink for the meal he is preparing. The father gives the son more than enough money to buy whatever drink that he would like. However, before the father could say another word, the son was off to the store to purchase a drink for the meal he was preparing.
While in the store, the son is blown away by all of the options he must choose from. So many drinks, so many options! And the money to buy ANY, SINGLE, ONE! The son is too excited! He chooses to buy a Dr.Pepper for the meal his father is preparing. So he selects the tall, dark, soda and runs to the register to buy his selected drink.
Once the son returns home, he runs through the door and to the table. He can't wait to eat the meal father has prepared. As father comes from the kitchen, the son is shocked by the bowl he lays before him. How on Earth can his Dr.Pepper wash down Captain Crunch?
The moral of the story is as simple as partnership itself: THERE ARE NOT THAT MANY OPTIONS! God gives every single person on this Earth a purpose, which is their meal. And His goal is for us to complete that meal before we leave this Earth. Partnership is simply a drink for the meal God has prepared for us. And even though he gives us options through free will, those options really don't lead to much to choose from.
If the kid in the story knew his father was making him a bowl of cereal, would he really have as many options as he did in the store? Outside of deciding between black, white, lowfat, and skim, the son would have never allowed his eyes to leave the milk aisle. Finding a partner is just that simple! We are not looking in the whole store; we are simply looking for our meal's best match. That's it! Just that simple! The table of Love is easy, because it's a Breakfast Table. What's brought to it is for the start of day!
Be blessed,
Doctor Love
While in the store, the son is blown away by all of the options he must choose from. So many drinks, so many options! And the money to buy ANY, SINGLE, ONE! The son is too excited! He chooses to buy a Dr.Pepper for the meal his father is preparing. So he selects the tall, dark, soda and runs to the register to buy his selected drink.
Once the son returns home, he runs through the door and to the table. He can't wait to eat the meal father has prepared. As father comes from the kitchen, the son is shocked by the bowl he lays before him. How on Earth can his Dr.Pepper wash down Captain Crunch?
The moral of the story is as simple as partnership itself: THERE ARE NOT THAT MANY OPTIONS! God gives every single person on this Earth a purpose, which is their meal. And His goal is for us to complete that meal before we leave this Earth. Partnership is simply a drink for the meal God has prepared for us. And even though he gives us options through free will, those options really don't lead to much to choose from.
If the kid in the story knew his father was making him a bowl of cereal, would he really have as many options as he did in the store? Outside of deciding between black, white, lowfat, and skim, the son would have never allowed his eyes to leave the milk aisle. Finding a partner is just that simple! We are not looking in the whole store; we are simply looking for our meal's best match. That's it! Just that simple! The table of Love is easy, because it's a Breakfast Table. What's brought to it is for the start of day!
Be blessed,
Doctor Love
What is Love
What is Love? If you are asking this question, CONGRATULATIONS! The raising of the mere question itself signals the questioner's potential to Love. But what is Love? Well, Love is a NOUN! Yes, Love is a Person, Place, and that which is a Thing! And ain't it funny, though, that you can be with a person you Love, In a place that you Love, and STILL not have that thing (RING!) that signals Love to the world?
Well, my goal in blogging is to share my gift of Love through lessons for you! I am one who was gifted with Love by God Himself. I was taught Love. I was trained in Love. I was given the greatest spiritual ranking of Love, which is Charity! What's a gift without the ability to give it! I'm thankful for God not only making me a Lover, but also thinking enough of me to make me charitable with that Love! I pray you take these lessons as food for your soul. Love is food, and these lessons are Love! Eat and be FULL!
God bless,
Doctor Love
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